This is not to say I have a degree in psychology or evolution. But when it comes to understanding how we humans behave and why we do the things we do - in our families, at work, at play, in government and even at war (or especially at war) - I start with evolutionary psychology. Which is to say I ask "What would a hunter gatherer do?"
Many smart people, of course, prefer to start with the question "What does our culture dictate we do," arguing that our behavior is mostly shaped by societal rules that aren't innately human. Many also say that our sophisticated cultures and brains make the question of how our former hunter gatherer selves behaved irrelevant.
I don't disagree that culture matters and that our brains add considerable complexity and flexibility to our behavior, but for me the behaviors that evolved while we lived off of hunted game and foraged roots usually have the upper hand.
Two reasons are enough to convince me. First, when it comes to the meaty stuff, we humans act pretty identically across all continents and societies; we fall in love, get jealous, are ambitious, protect our children, etc. Sure there are differences around the edges (who it's acceptable to fall in love with, whether we simmer or explode when jealousy sparks), but our core behavior is remarkably universal. Since it's too big a coincidence that humans in all cultures "just happen" to be similar, the more likely explanation is that there's something in our DNA that makes us do the things we do.
The other reason you'll get farther asking how a hunter gatherer would act has to do with the sheer amount of time we spent in the bush. If you think that humans have been around for 2 million years (in our current form as Homo Sapiens for 250,000 years), and that we've only been agricultural for about 30,000 years, industrial for 150 years and "post-industrial" for 50 years, out modern "culture" has - at best - been around for 2% of the time we humans have been on earth, and that's assuming our culture goes back to Sumer and we're only talking about Homo Sapiens. If you prefer to look at the earliest humans and think modern culture started more around the time of the Enlightenment, then our modern selves only account for 0.025% of our species' existence. Imagine the length of a football field as the history of human life; we've been modern for about an inch.
If you do think evolution has something to do with our behavior, then 99% of our evolution happened when we were living in small bands, gathering roots and wild fruit, and hunting small prey. The culture we see around us is a relative gloss. That's not to say we aren't still evolving - we are, but not at a pace fast enough to reverse what came 2 million years before.
The best example of how behavioral evolution can't keep up with times is contraception. Pretty much up until the last 50 years, when people had sex there was a good chance a baby would follow. If you were a man who was partnered off with a woman and raising her children with her - or expecting to - you'd likely get pretty peeved, or enraged, if you found her in the arms of another man. This made good evolutionary sense; men who didn't care about who their women were lounging with would more likely end up raising other men's children. In evolutionary theory, if your DNA don't make it to the next generation you've lost. So the gene that says "sure, man, you can philander with my girlfriend" would likely die out while the "i will pummel you if you touch my woman" gene would proliferate. Thus infidelity leads to rage.
Fast forward to the late 20th century, however, and the equation "sex=babies" is no longer true. Condoms and the pill have made baby-making a rare byproduct of sex. And yet, men in the modern age still fly into rages - or merely fall out of love - if they find their girl with another guy. But that doesn't make any evolutionary sense anymore. The chump has almost no risk of raising the other guy's kid as his own; he's lost nothing - why should he care if his lady is having some fun on the side? But it does make evolutionary sense - if you keep in mind that "behavioral evolution" is still largely left over from our hunter-gatherer days. The pill can change society, but it can't change 2 million years of evolution.